You are Unfathomable

October 25th, 2010 No comments

As a child, I was fascinated by the planets and stars. My father was an aeronautic engineer and partly responsible for landing men on the moon. I can remember getting a small telescope from my father for my birthday one year and perching it up on the back deck of our family home in Southern California (in those days, you could actually see stars at night). I remember looking through my new telescope and discovering a whole new dimension of creation that I never knew existed. I saw millions of stars, and I wondered, Who put them there? Why do they twinkle like that? Why don’t they fall? In my naivety I remember sitting out one night on a quest to count the number of stars in the sky … 99, 100, 101 … surely with a little time and effort I could count them in a single evening, right?

It is estimated that there are as many as 200 billion galaxies in the observable universe. We aren’t able to see all of them yet, as we currently can’t build a telescope big enough to peek into the farther reaches of space. Scientists believe the number of stars in the universe is about 50,000 billion billion. A billion billion? That’s 1 followed by eighteen zeros! That’s a thousand times one hundred million billion. And once we even begin to comprehend the concept of a billion billion, multiply that by 50,000. Believe me, it’s a lot.

Staggering statistics like these bring at least partially fathomable meaning to the phrase “God is awesome.” God called this vast universe into existence, and He knows every star by name. The Bible says, “He determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name. Great is our Lord and mighty in power; his understanding has no limit” (Ps. 147:4–5, TNIV). That, my friend, is a bunch of names. You think about coming up with 50,000 billion billion names! I have four kids, and I can’t even remember their names all the time. But God knows each star individually. For God to intimately know each of the six billion people on the planet is easy!

David tried to understand this same mathematical perspective. He wrote, “When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place, what are mere mortals that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them? You have made them a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned them with glory and honor” (Ps. 8:3–5, TNIV).

Even beyond the splendor and expanse of a universe that we can’t even understand, God still looks at you as His greatest achievement. He created 50,000 billion billion stars, but none of them are as beautiful as the stars He put in your eyes. You are His masterpiece!

It has been calculated that since the beginning of man there have been fifteen to twenty billion people born. Some who believe that man has been around for millions of years (we’re not going to debate that) estimate the number to be upward of ninety-six billion. In either case, we’re talking about a bunch of people! Currently, there are more than six billion people alive today. Every person ever created is completely different than any other human being.

Here’s how: DNA molecules can unite in an infinite number of ways. The closest number we can figure is 10 to the 2,400,000,000th power. That number represents the likelihood that you’d ever find somebody just like you. If you were to write out that number with each zero being one inch wide, you’d need a strip of paper 37,000 miles long. In fact, if the DNA strands from your body were stretched out in sequence, they would reach to the sun and back (93 million miles) four hundred times.

In a twenty-four hour period your heart will beat 103,689 times. Your blood will travel through your veins more than 168,000,000 miles. You will breathe 23,040 times. You will move more than 750 muscles, speak 4,800 words, and exercise more than 7 billion brain cells.

Your uniqueness is a scientific fact. When God made you, He broke the mold. There has never been, and will never again be, anyone just like you.  Your uniqueness is unfathomable!


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Tips to Better Communication

October 16th, 2010 1 comment

Regardless of your profession, age, marital status or culture, communication is a key component of doing life.  The way in which life moves forward is on the waves of words. We use them in every aspect of life and how they are used has a great bearing as to whether the message we are intending to communicate is understood and received.

Albert Mehrabian discovered that face-to-face communication can be broken down into three definable components (Click on link for more):

1. Words – What we say.

2. Tone of voice – How we say it.

3. Body language -  How we show it.

Studies have shown that as much as 90 percent of what we communicate has nothing to do with just what we say, but the combination of all factors.  I can ask my wife, “Honey, how are you doing?” If she pauses, looks down and whispers, “I’m fine.” I know that the words spoken are greatly altered by the tone of voice and her body language therefore giving me a signal that her true communication to me is, “I really need some love and encouragement.”

Whether you are a leader, pastor, or even college student, learning how to understand communication from others as well as how to communicate to others, may very well be some of the most important skills you will ever learn.

What you Say- Words are a very powerful tool to win the hearts of people, but can also be a very dangerous weapon that can destroy the hearts of many.  Great attention should be given as to what you say to ANYONE. If you are preparing for a message, take as much time to craft the words you will share as you do the content of what is to be shared. If you are going to chat with someone that has offended, take the time to write down what ‘should’ be said to bring restoration, not what ‘could’ be said to vent your feelings. If you are bringing correction to a child or co-worker, think through what words would be the best to identify the weakness, but also allow them to know that you are on their side. And remember, a few less selective words is better than a mouthful of vain babbling!

How you say it- The tone of your voice is perhaps the most influential part of communication. How something is said has a great bearing on the intent behind the words. That is why texting and email communication can have huge misunderstanding; you simply have to interpret what is being said, without the the emotion of the communicator. Side note, learn to pick up the phone instead of texting when sensitive communication issues are being discussed.  I have learned along the way, it is better to wait to communicate, until my emotions are in order. If I feel angry, frustrated, agitated or hurt in anyway, I would rather say nothing, wait, pray and get my head together and make sure I am communicating with the right spirit and attitude than spewing a sea of regretful words.  Take the time to get your head together, before you open your mouth.

How you show it – Body language is another critical part to your communication, and can really be the real indicator as to how you really feel.  How you stand or sit, cross your arms or legs, look down, up or away all will have a bearing on what people think you are trying to say.  If you are trying to reinforce your love for someone, lean in. If you are frustrated with someone, then lean back and get out of their space.  Maintain eye contact, and learn not to look away. Refrain from crossing your arms and set them in your lap instead. Use your body as a tool to reinforce your words, not breed confusion in the listener.

These simple yet important principles will make a difference in the receptivity of your listeners. Let’s all attempt to apply these principles in our daily lives and make our communication a major discipline. You never know, you just might get the message across!

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The Influence of TV in Your Life – BEWARE

September 13th, 2010 No comments

Let us face reality, TV has become a part of life for billions of people. The truth of the matter is, it is here to stay. The TV industry continues to expand in its influence as well as the viewing options that are available for any home. There are channels which teach us how to read and write, in addition to giving us 24 hour weather. We are inundated with a variety of entertainment which range from preaching the gospel to pornography. The tragedy is that we allow more people into our homes through our TV that we would never allow in through the front door.

You might want to consider the affect of television on your life and the lives of your family members. Listed below are some statistics sorted by category, followed up by some of the influnces of television. Please understand that I am not on a “Throw Your TV Away” campaign, but do suggest that you monitor what is being viewed in your home and make some decisions to minimize its affect.

According to the A.C. Nielsen Co. (Compiled by TV-Free America):

  • The average American watches more than 4 hours of TV each day
  • Or 28 hours/week
  • Or 2 months of nonstop TV-watching per year.
  • In a 65-year life, that person will have spent 9 years glued to the tube. Compiled by TV-Free America

 I. FAMILY LIFE

  • Percentage of households that possess at least one television: 99
  • Number of TV sets in the average U.S. household: 2.24
  • Percentage of U.S. homes with three or more TV sets: 66
  • Number of hours per day that TV is on in an average U.S. home: 6 hours, 47 minutes
  • Percentage of Americans that regularly watch television while eating dinner: 66
  • Number of hours of TV watched annually by Americans: 250 billion
  • Value of that time assuming an average wage of S5/hour: S1.25 trillion
  • Percentage of Americans who pay for cable TV: 56
  • Number of videos rented daily in the U.S.: 6 million
  • Number of public library items checked out daily: 3 million
  • Percentage of Americans who say they watch too much TV: 49

 II. CHILDREN

  • Approximate number of studies examining TV’s effects on children: 4,000
  • Number of minutes per week that parents spend in meaningful conversation with their children: 3.5
  •  Number of minutes per week that the average child watches television: 1,680
  • Percentage of day care centers that use TV during a typical day: 70
  • Percentage of parents who would like to limit their children’s TV watching: 73
  • Percentage of 4-6 year-olds who, when asked to choose between watching TV
  • and spending time with their fathers, preferred television: 54
  • Hours per year the average American youth spends in school: 900 hours
  • Hours per year the average American youth watches television: 1500

 III. VIOLENCE

  • Number of murders seen on TV by the time an average child finishes elementary school: 8,000
  • Number of violent acts seen on TV by age 18: 200,000
  • Percentage of Americans who believe TV violence helps precipitate real life mayhem: 79

IV. COMMERCIALISM

  • Number of 30-second TV commercials seen in a year by an average child: 20,000
  • Number of TV commercials seen by the average person by age 65: 2 million
  • Percentage of survey participants (1993) who said that TV commercials
  • Aimed at children make them too materialistic: 92
  • Rank of food products/fast-food restaurants among TV advertisements to kids: 1
  • Total spending by 100 leading TV advertisers in 1993: $15 billion

V. GENERAL

  • Percentage of local TV news broadcast time devoted to advertising: 30
  • Percentage devoted to stories about crime, disaster and war: 53.8
  • Percentage devoted to public service announcements: 0.7
  • Percentage of Americans who can name The Three Stooges: 59
  • Percentage who can name at least three justices of the U.S. Supreme Court: 17

VI. INFLUENCE OF TELEVISION 

For decades, research and studies have demonstrated that heavy television-viewing may lead to serious health consequences. Now the American medical community, which has long-voiced its concerns about the nation’s epidemic of violence, TV addiction and the passive, sedentary nature of TV-watching, is taking a more activist stance, demonstrated by its endorsement of National TV-Turnoff Week.

The average child will watch 8,000 murders on TV before finishing elementary school. By age eighteen, the average American has seen 200,000 acts of violence on TV, including 40,000 murders. At a meeting in Nashville, TN last July, Dr. John Nelson of the American Medical Association (an endorser of National TV-Turnoff Week) said that if 2,888 out of 3,000 studies show that TV violence is a casual factor in real-life mayhem, “it’s a public health problem.” The American Psychiatric Association addressed this problem in its endorsement of National TV-Turnoff Week, stating, “We have had a long-standing concern with the impact of television on behavior, especially among children.”

Millions of Americans are so hooked on television that they fit the criteria for substance abuse as defined in the official psychiatric manual, according to Rutgers University psychologist and TV-Free America board member Robert Kubey. Heavy TV viewers exhibit five dependency symptoms–two more than necessary to arrive at a clinical diagnosis of substance abuse. These include: 1) using TV as a sedative; 2) indiscriminate viewing; 3) feeling loss of control while viewing; 4) feeling angry with oneself for watching too much; 5) inability to stop watching; and 6) feeling miserable when kept from watching.

Violence and addiction are not the only TV-related health problems. A National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey released in October 1995 found 4.7 million children between the ages of 6-17 (11% of this age group) to be severely overweight, more than twice the rate during the 1960′s. The main culprits: inactivity (these same children average more than 22 hours of television-viewing a week) and a high-calorie diet. A 1991 study showed that there were an average of 200 junk food ads in four hours of children’s Saturday morning cartoons.

According to William H. Deitz, pediatrician and prominent obesity expert at Tufts University School of Medicine, “The easiest way to reduce inactivity is to turn off the TV set. Almost anything else uses more energy than watching TV.”

Children are not the only Americans suffering from weight problems; one-third of American adults are overweight. According to an American Journal of Public Health study, an adult who watches three hours of TV a day is far more likely to be obese than an adult who watches less than one hour.

Sometimes the problem is not too much weight; it’s too little. Seventy-five percent of American women believe they are too fat, an image problem that often leads to bulimia or anorexia. Sound strange? Not when one takes into account that female models and actresses are twenty-three percent thinner than the average woman and thinner than ninety-five percent of the female population.

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A True Key to Raising Great Children

September 12th, 2010 3 comments

There is proven research that shows that there is one major component in a children’s life that can radically improve the outcome of their life.  This is beyond great parenting and may surprise you. This morning during the weekend service, Pastor Frank Damazio mentioned these statistics regarding this encouraging subject. I hope that you will not only find it encouraging, but consider making church a priority for your children!  Here are the results found when children are committed to a healthy church environment. It will:

1. increase the average life expectancy of your children by 8 years

2. significantly reduce your child’s use and risk from Alcohol, Tobacco and Drugs

3. dramatically lower their risk of suicide

4. help them rebound from depression 70% faster

5. dramatically reduce their risk for committing a crime

6. improve their attitude at school and increase their school participation

7. reduce their risk for rebelliousness

8. reduce the likelihood that they would binge drink in college

9. improve their odds for a “very happy” life

10. provide them with a life-long moral compass

11. provide children with a caring extended family

12. get them to wear their seatbelts more often

13. and will also statistically improve the odds that they will lead an active church life in their adults years

 

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Leadership Recruiting Ethics

September 3rd, 2010 No comments

 

One of the greatest challenges of building a great church is finding the right leaders for each ministry. The success of every ministry rises or falls on leadership. In most cases, there is always a surplus of needs and opportunities and a lack of leaders to fulfill them.  Often times, this need can create competition and recruitment challenges between vital departments, where a leader is being coerced to consider multiple ministry options.

It is imperative that each person on the church leadership team recognizes that they are building the same vision and not in competition.  Learning how to work together in finding the best place for each person is a key to real maturity and true vision fulfillment. Over the past few years, we have developed a “Leadership Ethic Code” that has helped us in understanding the process in which we approach potential leaders. It has greatly reduced the conflict of leadership recruitment as well as allowed us to work closer together in building a great church. Take a moment and read through each of the points and consider applying them to your church situation:

Leadership Commitment to Working Together

 As leaders, we agree to conduct ourselves in an upright and professional manner, always reflecting the highest standard of biblical integrity in keeping with our calling. We are committed to honoring our fellow servants in God’s household. We will not seek to build our ministries at the expense of other ministries. We will communicate with the rest of the leadership team to encourage unity and the best use of resources for all areas of ministry.

  1. Training new leaders will take precedence over recruiting new leaders. I will “know the state of my flock” and be constantly looking for potential leaders who are already in my department/ministry, or who are new to the church and not yet involved in any ministry.
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  3. Before I discuss a new leadership opportunity with a member of the congregation (whether they approach me or I approach them), I will determine what areas of leadership they are currently serving in, and consider their gifts and abilities. I will contact the Pastor, Ministry Leader or Department Head involved to let them know of possible interest.
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  5. I will be concerned with the overall welfare of any individual (i.e. marriage, family, career, health, calling, etc.) more so than the fulfillment of ministry goals. I understand God will provide the right person at the right time.
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  7. I will not accept a person to serve in any position of ministry within my department if there are unresolved issues with any leader in any other department. I will request the individual resolve any differences and contact the pastor or ministry leader to insure all issues have been resolved before allowing them to serve in my area of ministry.
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  9. When a decision is agreed upon to transfer a lay leader from one area of ministry to another, I will do my best to make the transition smooth and enjoyable for all parties involved.
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  11. I will enhance the dignity and image of every other ministry by speaking highly of each ministry.
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Bringing Bible College to You!

September 1st, 2010 No comments

Over the past fifteen years I have had the privilege in working closely with Portland Bible College. Having the opportunity to be a part of shaping next generation leaders has been a real blessing. It has been amazing to see the lives of so many young people launched into ministry and to see the lives of thousands touched as a result of the efforts of PBC.

One of the comments I have heard while traveling all over the world is, “I would love to have the opportunity to take some quality Bible College classes, but my current life circumstances will not allow it.” Boy, do we have some good news for you!

For the first time in PBC’s history, online classes will be available starting this week.  You can now grow and learn anywhere. Each of the online classes is designed to replicate a vibrant classroom experience. All of the elements necessary for a truly life-changing theological education are present in the new online format and now available at your fingertips.

If you are serious about taking the next step in your biblical education, it is worth clicking on a few of the links below and checking it out! If you know of anyone in your church, pass it on; it is a recommendation worth making.

Online Program Homepage at Portland Bible College
 
Get a feel for the PBC Online Classroom by watching the Demo
 
Watch Free Lectures for a taste of PBC Online Courses
 
Get all your questions answered about PBC Online courses by going to
 
Download a PBC Online Program Prospectus with all the information at
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Free Tools for You!

August 20th, 2010 2 comments

Over the past few years I have posted some resource tools that are designed to help you in becoming a more effective leader. These items have been very popular and I have received many encouraging emails as to how they have helped others. I thought it would be good to put the list in front of you and allow you to download as many FREE resources as you want.

Let me know which ones have been a blessing to you!

FREE Downloadable Leadership Notes

Connecting to Community – Web Verison

Building a Thriving Team Culture – Web Version

Building a Leadership Pipeline – Web Version

Keys to a successful Volunteer Ministry- Web Version

Destroying Disabling Delusions of Discipleship – Web Version

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Combatting Perspectives of the Church – web

 

FREE Evangelism Resources

Irresistible Christianity Handbook

The Road Ahead Follow Up Booklet

Sharing the Gospel in the 21st Century – web version

 

FREE Pastoral Resources

Counseling in the Local Church

Water Baptism Booklet

FREE Self Assessment Tests

Identifying Your Spiritual Gifts

Defining Your Passions

Clarifying Your Talents and Abilities

Learning About Your Personal Makeup

Discerning Your Spiritual Maturity

Making Sense of Your Life Experiences

Making Priority Adjustments

 

FREE Downloadable Charts

Leader Development Chart BLANK

Leader Development Chart EXAMPLE

Growth Strategies Chart

Small Group Personal Growth and Development Chart

FREE Downloadable Miscellaneous Leadership Documents

Leadership Recruitment Code of Ethics

ENGAGEMENT READINESS EVALUATION

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Effective Confrontation

August 19th, 2010 3 comments

Most of us avoid conflict at all costs. First of all, it is no fun. Secondly, our natural tendency is to avoid confrontation. However, avoiding conflict will not solve the issue at hand, but will only multiply it.  The reality is, sooner or later, you will have to face the situation, and facing it early on in it’s conception will greatly reduce the potential of an all out war.

Here are some things you migh consider the next time you have to confront a situation or person:

1. Confront in private, not in public – Don’t create a scene, or embarrass someone. Have some wisdom and find a quiet place.

2. Don’t delay – The longer you wait, the harder it becomes and the easier it is to justify why you should leave it alone -

3. Deal only with a single iusse – Don’t bring a laundry list and attempt to address every issue that is on your mind. It may be overwhelming.

4. Don’t repeat yourself – Unless they didn’t hear what was being said, avoid be redundant. Most people comprehend the issues being presented.

5. Be careful of the words you use -  Don’t be condescending and don’t exaggerate of overstate your issues.

6.  Don’t confront issues that a person can’t change – There are some issues beyond a persons ability to control. Be sensitive to the battles you choose to face.

7.  Avoid demeaning or tearing the person down -  Talk to the person, don’t talk down to the person.

8. Help direct the person to acknowledging their problem by asking open ended questions -  You might consider asking questions that cause them to own the problem.

9. Don’t apologize for being truthful – Being sheepish will only minimize the truth that you are trying to communicate.

10. End on a positive note -  Reaffirm your support, thank them for listening and communicate your commitment to forgive and move forward.

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Combatting Sex Trafficking in Portland

August 18th, 2010 2 comments

Over the past few months our church has been investigating ways in which we might assist in combating the child sex trafficking in the Portland/Vancouver area.  Our city has been nicknamed, “Pornland” by Dan Rathers and has become one of the highest areas for sex trafficking in the entire United States.

Our journey has begun, by making a commitment to get involved and use our influence and resources to make a difference. On Sunday evening, August 15th, Pastor Frank presented our passion and commitment to get involved to the congregation at our Super Sunday Night. We asked our congregation to consider getting invovled in five different areas:

1. Commitment to Pray – We handed out thousands of prayer cards and asked people to pray. Over 300 people committed to pray daily for the cause.

2. Purchase a Care Package for Victims – Emergency Care Kits are available to any women who come into a S.A.R.C. drop in center.  Their need consisted of approximately 200 care packages for a year. We were able to commit to purchasing 246 Care Kits, thanks to the generosity of the CBC family.

3. Purchase Quilts – During the winter, most of these young girls are cold and need bedding to assist with their circumstance. The annual need is for 100 quilts. We were able to raise the money to purchase 127 quilts!

4. General Donations – We asked the congregation to donate money toward developing a ministry base in which we might be able to begin attacking the problem. The church raised over $1400 with many more commitments.

5. Volunteer to serve – Almost 200 people stepped up to the plate and made the commitment to serve in some capacity.

I am so proud of our church and their passion and commitment toward those in need. We truly do have a heart for the city and desire to make a difference.  If you are interested in helping us, you can also donate to help with the cause simply by clicking here, and selecting the ”Fight Sex Trafficking” category.

Here is a recent video that was also posted on Facebook, by a close friend, Tanell Morton. It will give you a fresh perspective at the challenges ahead.

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Heading Problems off Before They Are a Tragedy

August 17th, 2010 No comments

This is one fact that is for sure; life is filled with challenges and problems.  We all have a desired outcome to each day in which we live, but often times there are ‘surprises’ that come our way that may detour our desired plans and goals. Much of the outcome of a potential problem lies in our ability to discern, assess and resolve the situation promptly.  A leader is not measure by the challenges they face, but their respsonse to them!

The Los Angeles Times ran a quote that stated, “If you can smile whenever something goes wrong, you are either a nitwit, or a repair man.” I prefer the second option.  Realizing the only problem you really have is the one you allow to be a problem due to the wrong response to the issue at hand. Problems are really opportunities in the making. If God is truly in control of all things, He must have caused or allowed the situation to evolve and has a purpose in it.  The list of reasons could be endless.

Here would be a few thoughts that might help you next time an ‘opportunity’ comes your way:

1.   Intuition: You must sense it before you actually see it – There are a variety of factors that will allow you to sense that a potential challenge is on the horizon.  Slow down long enough to recognize unusual changes unfolding right in front of you.

2.  Discernment:  Ask yourself some honest questions – Believing the best in every situation is a noble position to take, but it can also end up in disaster. Face the brutal facts, don’t ignore or minimize the challenge at hand. Look at it objectively and discern what is unfolding and where it might potentially end up. Look at your options.

3.  Investigate: Gather important information – You will never make an intelligent decision without intelligent information. Get the facts and write them down.

4.  Evaluate: List all of the potential outcomes and all the potential choices and solutions you might choose. Look to God’s Word for scriptures that apply to your situation.

5. Feedback: Present the options to those you respect – Get outside input; there is wisdom in a multitude of counsel.

6.  Process: Develop a written action plan – Sit down and take the time to list the process for change. Include the who, when, what and where to insure that you are making the changing in a strategic manner.

7. Lead: Activate the plan – Don’t be wishy-washy in implementing that which you know is best. Procrastination is the devil’s workshop.

The next time you are faced with a problem that has the potential of ruining you day, head it off at the pass!

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