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Reviving your Strength in a Time of Weakness

July 30th, 2010 1 comment

I had a great weekend speaking at our services at City Bible Church. Our focus has been on reviving our spiritual passions. The series is entitled, “ALIVE.”  My focus was on reviving our strength in times of weakness and really felt that it was a word that helped many people. I looked at the life of Jehoshaphat and dealt with four critical steps to turning our desperate situations into places of strength:

1. Understand our Condition

2. Realize the Enemy’s Position

3. Embrace God’s Position

4. Solidify Our Decision

Here is the message. Why don’t you take some time, sit back with a cup of coffee and see if God might show up and really help you in your time of need:

Sermon 7/25/10 from City Bible Church on Vimeo.

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Fighting to change Pornland, once again to Portland!

July 26th, 2010 3 comments

Over the past few weeks, I have been spending a great deal of time looking into the horrific problem of sex-trafficking in our city. I fully understand the depth of this issue globally and am thankful for the countless ministries and social agencies that have dedicated their lives to stopping this unimaginable tragedy. However, I have become passionate for the issue in our city and looking for ways in which to be involved personally, as well as working with my Pastor, Frank Damazio as to what we might do as a local church.

For those of you that do not yet understood the magnitude of this issue in the Portland/Vancouver area, I wanted to post an article by The Huffington Post. It is listed below along with a link to a short video by Dan Rather on the Portland-Pornland area (located at the bottom of this post). Here it is:

Child prostitution has become a national problem in this country. Yes, I know that you have trouble believing that. You don’t want to believe it, so you tend not to.

“Widespread sex trafficking in children?”, you may be saying to yourself. “Sure, it happens overseas in places like Thailand and Moldova, and while there may be some of it here there’s not that much of it in our country.”

Based on a months long investigation and some reportorial digging, I’m here to tell you that you are wrong. We all are. We’re in denial.

In covering news for more than 60 years, I’d like to think that few stories shock me anymore. But this is one of them. We ran across it late last year and the more we dug, the more disturbing it became.

Eighty-year-old men paying a premium to violate teenage girls, sometimes supplied by former drug gangs now into child sex trafficking big time? You’ve got to be kidding. Nope. That’s happening and a lot more along the same lines.

The business is booming. One of the worst areas for it runs along lines running roughly from Seattle to Portland, to San Francisco and Los Angeles, to Las Vegas. But no place in the country is immune.

To pick just one example among many, Portland, Oregon is without doubt one of the nation’s treasures. It has been voted one of the best places to live and work. But according to police, the city and its outlying communities has become a hub for the sexual exploitation of children. In a recent nationwide sting by Federal, state and local law enforcement agencies, Portland ranked second in the country for the number of rescued child prostitutes. And according to Doug Justus, the workhorse sergeant in charge of Portland’s tiny Vice Detail, many of the children caught up in this are middle class kids from the area.

The girls, sometimes as young as 12, often 13-16, are lured by a “front man” in his mid-to-late teens. He becomes her “boyfriend,” taking her to dinner, buying her nice things, sometimes meeting her parents. The girl eventually moves in with him. Then he says they need money to continue being together. First, she’s enticed to sleep with his friends to pay the rent. Soon she’s turning tricks for what police say is an endless supply of older men willing to pay top money for sex with very young girls. Other times convincing the young adolescent girls to sell themselves happens very quickly.

“It is an out-of-control problem. It’s unbelievable,” say Justus. “I’ve only done this vice-squad job for three years. I’ve been a cop for 29. If you had told me three years ago that a 14-year-old girl would go to a food court, meet a guy, and three hours later be selling herself, I’d a said, no frigging way. It happens every single day, every day.”

It is a very lucrative business, according to Justus. “An average pimp with one kid will make between $800 and $l,000 a day. That’s seven days a week, 30 days a month,” he said. And the pimps usually have a stable of young girls. No wonder so many criminals in the drug trade have turned to it which they have in droves. There’s less chance of being caught, less chance of being prosecuted if caught, lighter sentences — if any — if convicted.

There is, and has been for a long time, a national “War on Drugs.” There isn’t one on child prostitution and what amounts to a slave trade. Only feeble efforts at best.

Justus is frustrated that the Portland police have only two full-time vice investigators, compared to dozens of drug investigators.

“I’m not a politician. I’m just a cop. But if I’m a criminal and I got busted for drugs and I had a regional (drug) task force over here. And there’s another task force over there, and there, and then I know there’s only two vice investigators in the city of Portland, let me think. I think I’ll sell women because what are the chances of me being caught?”

The story we’ve prepared is not about prostitution per se. This is about child abuse. This is also about statutory rape and compelling prostitution among the young. All are difficult to prove. A major reason, according to police, is that it’s extremely difficult to convince a young girl to testify against their pimps and “johns”. They are afraid.

Sgt. Justus told us the story of a 16-year-old girl whom he convinced to “roll” on her pimp. But before she could testify against him she disappeared — and her pimp walked free. Justus has spent the last year looking for her and fears she’s dead.

How many children are being peddled on the streets of Portland and in other cities and towns, to say nothing of the Internet (Justus and other law enforcement people say Craigslist, along with other Internet sites, are major factors in the spread of child prostitution)? Hard to know about the real numbers. The most conservative estimates are that at least 100,000 American children are being victimized. Many experts say they believe it’s closer to 300,000 or more.

Whatever the number, it is a national outrage and disgrace. And the problem is growing, not diminishing.

Based on our investigation, we’ve prepared an hour long program on this problem. We’ve spoken with parents who never dreamed their young daughter would be caught up in underage prostitution but was. We’ve also interviewed several girls who lived to tell about their experiences of being sold. Tuesday night at 8pm Eastern time on HDNet, via satellite and cable.

PORNLAND VIDEO WITH DAN RATHER CLICK HERE

A Nation in Need of CPR – Christ Prevailing Revival

July 24th, 2010 No comments

All of us are familiar with the story of the frog in the kettle. A frog placed in boiling water will immediately jump from the pot. A frog placed in room temperature water where the heat is gradually turned up will fry in the boiling water and never jump. So it is with a nation.

The Bible is filled with the repeated history of man following this unfortunate, yet predictable pattern. We seek God, He shows up. We get complacent in our success and forget God and he removes His blessing.  If you ever want to see just how many times this scenario repeats itself, just open up your bible and underline every time it says, “An Israel again did evil in the sight of the Lord.”

Healing in a nation starts with God’s people.  2 Chronicles 7:14 states, “If MY PEOPLE, who are called by My name, will humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and heal their land.” It starts with us! Change in a nation starts with change in us, in you, and in me.

It is time that we, as His people, examine our lives, our cities and our nation, and recognize that there is more that each of us can do to increase the spiritual atmosphere in our cities. The scripture is clear, if we exchange some spiritual activity for our carnal activities, stuff happens.

Here are some practical things you can DO! Not read, meditate on, study, but DO! God’s Word guarantees us a great reward!

1. Ask God to reveal to you any un-confessed sins or wrong behaviors in your life.

2. Ask God to forgive you of any wrong doing.

3. Seek forgiveness of anyone you have wronged. Humble yourself and repent.

4. Pray for Holy Spirit to fill you and help  you to walk a “Spirit-filled” life, not a “Natural-minded” life.

5. Resist complacency and apathy at all costs.

6. Surrender EVERY area of your life to Jesus Christ. He is Lord of all, or Lord not at all.

7. Ingest the Word of God in large doses. Fall in love with His voice.

8. Increase your times of prayer. Don’t settle for the amount of your current prayer times. Seek Him more.

9.  Add a day of fasting to your schedule.

10. Make a list of prayer needs for you, your family, your church, your city and your nation. Pray without ceasing.

11. Be prompt in your obedience to God. Don’t delay, obey Him in every situation and circumstance!

Let’s not remain content with our lives, situation and condition of our nation. Let’s step up the heat on the Devil, crucify the ‘flesh’ and give God the opportunity to move in us and through us. Exciting days are ahead!

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When You Get Kicked in the Rear, You Know You’re Out in Front

July 20th, 2010 4 comments

 

One of my favorite authors is John Maxwell. He always has a way of inspiring you to greatness. A few weeks ago, I came across a blog post of his that I just couldn’t help but to pass on to you. It is just a great approach to dealing properly with criticism. If you are in any level of leadership, criticism will be close behind. Read and be inspired!

Greek philosopher Aristotle said, “Criticism is something you can avoid easily—by saying nothing, doing nothing, and being nothing.” Obviously, that isn’t an option for anyone who wants to be successful as a leader.

Good leaders are active, and their actions often put them out front. That often draws criticism. When spectators watch a race, where do they focus their attention? On the front-runners! People watch their every action—and often criticize.

Since criticism is a part of leadership, you need to learn how to handle it constructively.  The following has helped me to deal with criticism, so I pass it on to you.

Know yourself.

Do you really know yourself? Are you aware of your weaknesses as well as your strengths? Where do you fall short as a person and leader? Not sure what your weaknesses are? Ask five trustworthy people close to you. They’ll be able to tell you where you come up short.

Know the criticism – and the critics.

When you receive criticism, how do you tell if it’s constructive or destructive? (Some say constructive criticism is when I criticize you, but destructive criticism is when you criticize me!) Here are the questions I ask to get to determine what kind of criticism it is:

  • Who criticized me? Adverse criticism from a wise person is more to be desired than the enthusiastic approval of a fool. The source often matters.
  • How was it given? I try to discern whether the person was being judgmental or whether he gave me the benefit of the doubt and spoke with kindness.
  • Why was it given? Was it given out of a personal hurt or for my benefit? Hurting people hurt people; they lash out or criticize to try to make themselves feel better, not to help the other person.

Stay open to change.

Let’s assume you now know yourself pretty well. You can tell when a criticism is way off-base; maybe it’s directed more at your position than at you. And you know when a criticism is 100% legitimate because it’s about a weakness that you’ve already discovered.

But what about the gray areas? The criticisms that might hold a grain of truth? A good leader stays open to improvement by:

  • Not being defensive,
  • Looking for the helpful grain of truth,
  • Making the necessary changes, and
  • Taking the high road.

Accept yourself.

Jonas Salk, developer of the Salk polio vaccine, had many critics in spite of his incredible contribution to medicine. Of criticism, he observed, “First people will tell you that you are wrong. Then they will tell you that you are right, but what you’re doing really isn’t important. Finally, they will admit that you are right and that what you are doing is very important; but after all, they knew it all the time.”

How do leaders who are out front handle this kind of fickle response from others?

The Serenity Prayer, made famous by Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12-step programs, gives direction in this area:

God, grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

If you have endeavored to know yourself, and have worked hard to change yourself, then what more can you do?

Forget yourself.

The final step in the process of effectively handling criticism is to stop focusing on yourself. Secure people forget about themselves so they can focus on others. By doing this, they can face nearly any kind of criticism—and even serve the critic.

I try to live out a sentiment expressed by Parkenham Beatty, who advised, “By your own soul learn to live. And if men thwart you, take no heed. If men hate you, have no care: Sing your song, dream your dream, hope your hope and pray your prayer.”

As leaders, we must always be serious about our responsibilities, but it isn’t healthy for us to take ourselves too seriously. A Chinese proverb says, “Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves. They shall never cease to be entertained.”

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My friend Joyce Meyer observes, “God will help you be all you can be, but He will never let you be successful at becoming someone else.” We can’t do more than try to be all that we can be. If we do that as leaders, we will give others our best, and we will sometimes takes hits from others. But that’s okay. That is the price for being out front.

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Being Thankful in All Things

July 18th, 2010 2 comments

The past year has brought extra pressures on us all. For many of us we have had to learn to live with less. This challenged has positioned us at the crossroad between thankfulness and murmuring. On one hand you might feel justified to complain about all the things you don’t have and how life has dealt you an unfair blow. On the other hand, you can also choose to look at all the things that God has allowed you to have and be overwhelmed with a sense of thankfulness. The choice is really in our hands.

Paul the Apostle sums it up in Philippians when he says, “ I don’t have a sense of needing anything personally. I’ve learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I’m just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I’ve found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am.“  The Message : The Bible in contemporary language (Php 4:11-13).

I heard a great story that gripped my heart and reminded me once again to be thankful for all the wonderful blessings that God has poured into my life and even if I have a little less, to be sure to have some margin to pass it on to others.

A harried waitress approached the table where a young girl was sitting by herself. She quickly asked the girl what she wanted. “How much is an ice cream sundae?” the little girl inquired. The waitress snapped, “A dollar seventy-five.” The girl looked at her fistful of change and then asked, “How much is a dish of just plain ice cream?” “One-fifty,” retorted the waitress. “Then I’ll take the plain ice cream, please,” said the young customer. The waitress returned with the bowl of ice cream but delivered it in rude silence. After the little girl finished her ice cream and left, the waitress went to clean off the table. To her shame, she found two dimes and five pennies. Her tip was the exact amount the little girl needed to get a sundae rather than just plain ice cream. In each of our lives, others have made sacrifices for our well being. May we be grateful for even the smallest gesture of kindness we receive.

You might consider doing a little exercise to boost your thankful meter:

1. Make a list of all the things in your life that you are thankful for.

2. Take some time to pray and thank God for his provision on your life.

3. Ask him to forgive you of any attitude of ungratefulness toward him or any other person.

4. Let all your future needs in His hands.

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Stuff, Stuff, Stuff. Does it really matter?

July 14th, 2010 1 comment

 

I recently came across a story regarding our nation’s obsession with stuff. You know, the things that we perceive we need and will do anything to obtain. It stated that there are now more than 30,000 self-storage facilities in our country that offer over 1 billion (yes, I said billion) square feet for people to store their stuff. It was only just a few decades ago where this industry didn’t even exist. America now spends over $12 billion dollars annually to store our stuff that we can’t fit into our current homes.

John Ortberg mentions the pursuit of stuff in one of his books and brings up the story of William Randolph Hearst. You might remember him as the owner of the Hearst Castle in California. William Hearst was a ‘stuffaholic’. He had 3,500 year-old Egyptian statues, medieval Flemish tapestries, and centuries-old hand card ceilings, and some of the greatest works of art of all time. He built a 72,000 square foot house to put his ‘stuff’ in. He bought some property to build this ‘house’ on which was a mere 265, 000 acres. He at one time owned 0 miles of the California coastline. He spent most of his eighty years collecting stuff, then something amazing happened… HE DIED!

Nothing went with him, it was all left behind. You might ask, and for what purpose?  You might find one worth investing some brain cells to justify, but for me, I just think of all the ways that money could have been used to help others. Don’t get me wrong, I have my stuff as well. Each of us have a way in justifying what stuff we truly need. In most cases, what we ‘need’ is a distant reach from what we  really ‘need.’ The older I get, the more I don’t need stuff to measure my worth, value, comfort or significance, quite the contrary. I find greater joy in giving away my stuff to help others in need.

Here are some sobering thoughts to consider about your ‘stuff’ mentioned by Mr. Ortberg in his book, “When it is all over, it all goes back in the Box.”

  1. Stuff is not treasure – Smart players are clear on what lasts and what doesn’t. It is wise to store up treasure in what is eternal: God and people.
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  3. Stuff cannot belong to me – The Bible says, “the earth is the Lord’s and everything in it.”  God goes on to say, “The silver is mine and the gold is mine.” You are simply a steward of His resources.
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  5. Stuff cannot last – Go to your county dump and take a look at the piles of stuff. Stuff will lose is luster, just give it time.
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  7. Stuff cannot make you free – Getting more stuff doesn’t make you free; quite the contrary. The more you have the more you have to manage.
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  9. Stuff cannot make you happy – It may for a moment, but the reality is, the excitement wears off soon, and you just are looking for the next upgrade.
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  11. Stuff cannot make you secure – We come into this world naked and penniless; we’re going out in the same fashion. Our current economic crash has shown us one thing, our money and possessions are the place to put our security.
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  13. Stuff can help me become rich toward God – We we give our ‘stuff’ away, there is something very special that happens. We receive the very thing we wanted in the first place; joy, fulfillment, satisfaction and genuine peace. Stuff can’t give that to you, but giving it away sure can.
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Why not do a ‘stuff’ inventory today? You might consider clearing out the storage unit, or garage and giving it to someone in need. You might even have a garage sale and donate the money to a needy charity. You never know, you just might feel a little better about yourself.

If you really want a fresh challenge, check out John’s book:

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Bullet Train moving at 200+ mph

July 9th, 2010 4 comments

It is the third day of my ministry trip in Japan and having a great time. The meetings have been incredible and we have had a great connection with many of the pastors and leaders of the nation.  We held leaders meeting the first two nights in Nagoya with Pastor Santos and local area pastors. The turn out was encouraging and many pastors were challenged.

Today, we hopped on a bullet train and travelled to Osaka to spend the day with a great friend and pastor, Joel Kaylor. We spent the day sight seeing at a famous Buddhist Temple, shopping down town, eating at the Osaka Barbecue, and finished the day speaking to Joel’s leaders at Life Church.

I am just amazed at the speed of these bullet trains and thought I would post a picture for you to just watch how fast these trains move. Enjoy!

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Miracles are within Your Reach

July 7th, 2010 3 comments

For many of you that read this blog, you would have some level of belief in the supernatural. The idea that miracles do exist has been at the center of discussion for centuries and has created varied opinions as to the reality that miracles do exist.  Regardless of where you stand, there are situations that you are facing currently that might propel you to believe, even if your belief system is contrary to your desperation.

This has been a major focus for me over the past few months, and I find myself frequently looking at the words of Jesus regarding this intriguing subject. I will just admit it up front, I have been raised to believe that miracles do exist and that God is passionately interested in demonstrated His power to help us humans as well as to reveal Himself to a world in need of Him.  I also must admit that believing in miracles don’t necessarily activate them in my life and that if I want to see Him actually show up and move on my behalf, there are some other factors that must be in play to see Him move.

While sitting on a plane from Portland to Tokyo, I was wrestling with this issue, reading the book of John and trying to get my head around the statement Jesus made in John 14. He is talking once again, about some promises that are available to us. He blasts off this bone-chilling promise that is still to this day, hard to grasp, He states, “The truth is, anyone who believes in me will do the same works I have done, and even greater works, because I go to the Father. You can ask anything in my name, and I will do it… Yes ask anything in my name and I will do it!”

“Come on Jesus, greater works than you did, we can do? Ask ANYTHING and you will do it?”  I don’t know about you, but even in all my years of being a Christian and praying for God to use me, I still have to tilt my head a few degrees to the left to get that one to sink in. 

Anyways, back to the story. As I was contemplating John 14 and his words our flight attendant came down the isle with her arm wrapped in ice. She has just poured boiling water down her arm and was in much pain and hoping to land soon to deal with the situation. Her arm was obviously very read, swollen and appeared to be a very ugly burn. So I had a choice to make. Do I just read the scripture, believe it in my heart and not say anything, or do I add the other ingredients to activate the miracle? I chose option #2. Let’s go ahead and add the faith and action components and see what happens.

I stopped the lady, mentioned that I was a Christian and that I believed that God was a God that heals. I shared with her that if she would let me pray for her, that God could touch her arm right here on the plane and heal it completely. She looked quite surprised and perplexed by my boldness along with the other 5-7 passengers within listening distances.  Remembering what a good friend, Wendell Smith always says, “You do the ridiculous and He will do the miraculous, ” I took the plunge. (by the way, check out his blog)

She allowed me to pray and as soon as I was finished, she looked at me with her sweet Japanese eyes and accent and said, “This is power… Is this Jesus Power?” She walked to the back of the plane and came back up with out any ice packs and her arm and hand were completely healed. No red, no swelling, no blisters… perfectly normal.  She said quite boldly, “Look it worked, it really worked!” I hate to admit it buy I was almost as surprised as the passengers around me, but quickly reminded myself of the words just previously read, “Greater  works will you DO, because I go to the Father.”

I believe it about time for Christians to move from just believing about miracles to activating them. There are opportunities around us every day. People are sick, hurt, bound, wounded, depressed, oppressed, possessed, abused, accused and accursed. We have been given everything we need to move in the supernatural and activate God’s power in the midst of every day life.  Why don’t you take a step of faith today. Follow these simple steps and see if God will move through you. You never know, you just might start a miracle movement!

  1. Pray and ask God to stir up the gifts of the Spirit within you.
  2. Pray for divine appointments and that God would reveal opportunities for a miracle.
  3. Take a step of action and ask the person if you can pray. State your reasoning for the prayer and Give God the credit before hand.
  4. Pray and believe.
  5. Let God do the rest. Your job is to be obedient, His job is to show up.
  6. Give Him all the credit for what He did. If nothing happened, still give him the credit, because a healing may still be coming their way!

Why not join with me and bring back the miraculous! You just my begin to believe that miracles are for today, and they are for YOU!

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Winning the War on Worry

July 3rd, 2010 No comments

It is a challenge to not allow worry to invade our lives in the pressure cooker world in which we live. It seems that there is little certainty in every sector of society which can cause us to be anxious about tomorrow.  As a leader, I attempt to get a proper perspective of the who is really in charge every morning before facing the circumstances of the day. Laying everything in God’s hands has always seemed to be a better approach to my personal challenges; He has never lost a battle yet.

Furthermore, when you really look at what we worry about, we begin to see that our worry just might be overstated. Here is a breakdown that shows the outcome of the things we worry about:

  • Things which never happen: 40 percent.
  • Things past which can’t be changed or corrected: 30 percent.
  • Needless worry about our health: 12 percent.
  • Petty miscellaneous worries: 10 percent.
  • Real and legitimate worries: 8 percent.

There is a legend which says that there was a mouse who was very afraid of cats. She wished she could become a cat, her wish came true and she turned into a cat. Then she saw a dog and became afraid again and wished she were a dog. Her wish was granted and she turned into a dog. Then she saw a lion and she was terrified by his power and strength and wished she could become a lion so that she would not have to be terrified of the lion. Her wish was granted and she became a lion. Then she saw a man with a gun about to shoot her with his gun. You can imagine what happened next. She wished she could become a human and she did. But when she was sitting in her house she saw a mouse and she was scared of the mouse. The little mouse frightened her. She then realized the problem was with herself.

Maybe that’s why Jesus said, “Don’t be anxious for tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself.  (See Matthew 6:34.) When we can learn to lean on him and not on our own undestanding, He will direct our paths.

Here are some simple, yet important steps you might consider to overcome worry:

  1. Recognize God is in control – He has everything under control. He knows your needs before they existed, and he will never leave of forsake you and promised to supply your every need.
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  3. Recognize your worry will never change your circumstance – The only thing worry will give you is an ulcer. Change the way you think.
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  5. Realize prayer is the best weapon for overcoming fear – An old Jamaican proverb does a good job of summarizing the biblical view of worry and prayer. It states, “If you’re going to pray, don’t worry; if you’re going to worry, don’t pray.” Make it your aim to pray and ask God for breakthrough.
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  7. Confess your worry to a friend who can challenge you – One of the greatest ways to break the attack on your mind and emotions is to confess it and allow others to rally around you to encourage you.
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  9. Take steps in the direction you desire to go – Don’t let worry paralyze you. Get a plan for change and move torward it.
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  11. Realize that seasons come and go – You made it through the last challenges, and you will make it through this one. The best is yet to come.
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  13. Find God’s promises in His Word – God’s promises are true and will build faith in your life. Find scriptures that speak faith into your circumstance, write them on a card and recited them every time you feel yourself starting to worry.
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  15. Give Thanks to God – Regardless of your circumstance, find things in  your life that you can be thankful for. Let God know how appreciative you are for what He has done. Taking your eyes off of the negative and focusing on the positive will help you to have a better perspective of the day.
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Let’s not waist another ten calories on a worry thought, but utilize your energies to think through the great things that are in store for you. The end result is that you will live a happier and more productive life.

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The Desperate Cry for Encouragement

July 3rd, 2010 No comments

It has been said that people need, “more strokes than pokes.” In a society that is filled with pressure, rage, and conflict, the antidote to soothe just might be encouragement. We all have experienced it and most long for it. Encouragement from someone you love or respect releases a sense of fulfillment that cannot be duplicated in any other way. We may not live by bread alone, but we all need buttering up once in a while. Mark Twain said, “I can live for two months on one encouraging word.”

We all the ability to give encouragement to those around us. Our tendency might be to point out the one thing we see that is wrong, while missing the opportunity to point out the ten things that are right. I don’t know what this is in all of us that leans toward criticism, judgmental-ism and hypocrisy, but it must have something to do with our sin nature. The only hope for all of us to recognize that we are all sinners and we all fall short of God’s standard. If it weren’t for His grace, none of us would be able to live another day. So why not look for ways to lift up and encourage those around you. This doesn’t mean that we live blindly to the truth or ignore wrong behaviors, but that we strive to be a modern day Barnabas; an encourager to all those within our reach.

Here is a great story to motivate you today to look beyond the circumstances and seize the moment to lift up those around you:

Miss Thompson taught Teddy Stallard in the fourth grade. He was a slow, unkempt student, a loner shunned by his classmates. The previous year his mother died, and what little motivation for school he may have once had was now gone. Miss Thompson didn’t particularly care for Teddy either, but at Christmas time he brought her a small present. Her desk was covered with well-wrapped presents from the other children, but Teddy’s came in a brown sack. When she opened it there was a gaudy rhinestone bracelet with half the stones missing and a bottle of cheap perfume. The children began to snicker but Miss Thompson saw the importance of the moment. She quickly splashed on some perfume and put on the bracelet, pretending Teddy had given her something special. At the end of the day Teddy worked up enough courage to softly say, “Miss Thompson, you smell just like my mother . . . and her bracelet looks real pretty on you too. I’m glad you like my presents.” After Teddy left, Miss Thompson got down on her knees and prayed for God’s forgiveness. She prayed for God to use her as she sought to not only teach these children but to love them as well. She became a new teacher. She lovingly helped students like Teddy and by the end of the year he had caught up with most of the students. Miss Thompson didn’t hear from Teddy for a long time. Then she received this note: “Dear Miss Thompson, I wanted you to be the first to know. I will be graduating second in my class. Love, Teddy Stallard.” Four years later she got another note: “Dear Miss Thompson, They just told me I will be graduating first in my class. I wanted you to be the first to know. The university has not been easy, but I liked it. Love, Teddy Stallard.” Four years later: “Dear Miss Thompson, As of today, I am Theodore Stallard, M.D. How about that? I wanted you to be the first to know. I am getting married next month. I want you to come and sit where my mother would sit if she were alive. You are the only family I have now; Dad died last year. Love, Teddy Stallard.” Miss Thompson went to the wedding and sat where Teddy’s mother would have sat, because she let God use her as an instrument of encouragement.

Take the risk and encourage someone today!

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